The Game of Love is Finding Adam Finding Eve’s Catholic dating coaching tool — a guided experience that helps you understand your temperament, reflect on your dates, and grow in the kind of self-knowledge that actually leads to a holy marriage. Think of it as your formation companion: part temperament assessment, part post-date reflection, part readiness check-in, all grounded in Catholic teaching about who you are as a person.
The Deeper Story
We built the Game of Love because we kept hearing the same thing from Catholic singles: “I want to date well, but I don’t know where to start.” And honestly? That’s a reasonable problem. The culture gives you swiping. The Church gives you Theology of the Body. But very few resources bridge the gap between deep theological truth and Tuesday night’s coffee date.
The Game of Love does exactly that. It’s grounded in the Catholic Christian Meta-Model of the Person (CCMMP), an 11-component framework that addresses your created, fallen, and redeemed nature — your body-soul unity, your vocation, your virtues, your emotional life, your rational and volitional capacities, and your interpersonal relationships. The Meta-Model offers a more comprehensive framework for understanding the person than any single personality theory or therapeutic model.
In practice, that means when you use the Game of Love, you’re not just answering quiz questions. You’re engaging with a formation tool that takes seriously who God made you to be — and who He’s calling you to become in relationship. To date successfully as a Catholic seeking marriage, you must understand who you are, what love really is, what marriage really is, and what to look for in yourself and in a potential spouse. The Game of Love walks you through all four.
What This Means for Your Dating Life
The Game of Love gives you three practical tools in one place. First, a temperament assessment that helps you understand your natural strengths and struggles in dating. Second, a post-date evaluation that helps you reflect intentionally — not just on whether you “had fun,” but on whether you observed virtue, felt peace, and sensed compatibility. Third, a readiness check-in that honestly assesses where you are on the path to marriage.
You’ll walk away from each session with concrete next steps, not vague inspiration.
Where to Go from Here
Start your journey at gameof.love — it takes about ten minutes and you might be surprised by what you learn about yourself. For more on the ministry behind the tool, visit Finding Adam Finding Eve. The best time to start was yesterday. The second best time is right now.