What Should Catholics Look for in a Future Spouse?
Catholics should look for virtue first, shared faith second, and emotional maturity third – then compatibility and attraction after that. Chemistry is real and it matters, but it is not a foundation. Marriage is not about finding the “perfect” person. It is about finding a person of sufficient virtue whom God is calling you to serve. The Deeper Story I know this can sound unromantic. We’ve been formed by a culture that says “follow your heart” and “you’ll just know.” And sometimes you do feel a spark. But feelings are not discernment. ...