What Does the Catholic Church Require Before Getting Married?

The Catholic Church requires that both parties be free to marry, that at least one be baptized Catholic, that the marriage be celebrated in proper canonical form (typically before a priest or deacon and two witnesses), and that the couple complete a marriage preparation program. These aren’t bureaucratic hoops – they’re the Church’s way of ensuring your marriage is valid, worthy, and set up to thrive. The Deeper Story I know the list of requirements can feel overwhelming, especially when you’re already navigating the emotional weight of getting engaged and planning a wedding. But each requirement exists for a real reason, and understanding them can actually deepen your appreciation for what you’re about to do. ...

February 23, 2026 · 3 min · Katie Palitto