What is Courtship in the Catholic Tradition?

Catholic courtship is the intentional, purposeful process of getting to know another person to determine whether God is calling you to marry them. Unlike casual dating, courtship has a direction from the start — it’s not about “hanging out and seeing what happens.” It moves through recognizable stages, involves your community, and keeps the ultimate question (marriage) on the table honestly. Courtship is how Catholics have always dated when they’re serious about love. ...

February 23, 2026 · 3 min · Katie Palitto