How Does a Catholic Approach a First Date Differently?
A Catholic approaches a first date differently because the underlying mindset is different. Instead of a consumer mentality — “Does this person meet my checklist? Am I attracted enough? What can I get from this experience?” — a Catholic brings a gift-of-self mindset: “How can I encounter this person with genuine dignity and openness? What might God be doing here?” That shift changes everything, from how you prepare to how you evaluate the evening afterward. A first date isn’t an audition. It’s the beginning of treating another person as a person. ...