Ask, Seek, Knock: An Intentional Approach to Finding Love

“Why can’t I find the one?” I hear this question constantly. In coaching sessions, in parish events, in DMs from Catholic singles who feel like they’ve done everything right and still end up alone on a Friday night. But here’s the thing–I always ask a follow-up question: The one for what? The one to make you happy when you’re sad? The one to travel with? The one to help you get to heaven? The one to love? Because how you finish that sentence changes everything about how you search. ...

February 11, 2026 · 4 min · Katie Palitto