How to Date for Real Love in a Hookup Culture

Can I ask you something honest? When was the last time someone you went on a date with told you their intentions upfront? If you had to think about it, you’re not alone. We live in a culture where “dating” usually means an ambiguous series of hangouts with no clear direction, no expressed commitment, and no end goal beyond “let’s see where this goes.” And most of us have accepted that as normal. ...

February 11, 2026 · 4 min · Katie Palitto