How Does Theology of the Body Apply to Modern Relationships?
Theology of the Body isn’t a relic from the 1980s — it’s one of the most relevant frameworks for navigating modern relationships. In a culture that treats people like profiles to swipe and bodies like commodities to consume, TOB offers a radical counter-narrative: you are a person to be loved, not a product to be used. And the person across from you on that date? Same. The Deeper Story John Paul II saw this coming. Decades before dating apps and hookup culture, he named the core problem: “The spousal meaning of the body has been distorted, almost at its roots, by concupiscence” (TOB). Concupiscence — that pull to use people instead of love them — isn’t new. But modern technology has supercharged it. Endless options. Instant access. The illusion that the next swipe might be better than the person in front of you. ...